I don’t worry that pictures of disabled people will “spoil my blog”.
I worry that noncensual pictures of disabled people paired with advocating for unethical causes/practices will spoil my blog.
I don’t worry that pictures of missing people will “spoil my blog”.
I worry that they don’t want to be found, that they are trying to escape abusive situations and I’ll be making it harder. And that spoils my blog.
Big difference, please stop trying to guilt me into it. It won’t work.